Tag Archives: Perfectionism

FMM 9 4 2026 My Harshest Critic

“If you live for the compliments, you’ll die by the criticism.” ~Charlamagne tha God. I have often said that my mother was a perfectionist.  Of course, in her profession (a high school teacher of shorthand and typing), accuracy was a necessary asset.  She would often preach that although speed was also desirable, without accuracy it […]

FMM 7 19 2024 Bout Better Being

“I’m like a recovering perfectionist. For me it’s one day at a time.” ~ Brene Brown. When I was eleven, I sat what was known as the ‘Common Entrance Exam’.  This was in Jamaica, and was common to all British based educational systems.  I forget how long it lasted, but it was a serious event, […]

FMM 1 13 2023 Weighty Expectations

“Conscience is the inner voice that warns us somebody may be looking.” ~ H.L. Mencken This morning I find myself unable to give the energy I need to an original Friday Morning Message.  I have been working on a big report at work, and have to acknowledge that I can’t do everything, so this morning I had […]

FMM 1 17 20 Down to Zero

“I’m like a recovering perfectionist. For me it’s one day at a time.” ~ Brene Brown. When one of my kids was in kindergarten or first grade, he got super frustrated doing his homework.  It appeared to be something simple – he was to draw a picture of a dinosaur.  But he was in tears, […]