Tag Archives: war

FMM 3 20 2026 Soul Music

“Music doesn’t lie. If there is something to be changed in this world, then it can only happen through music.” ~ Jimi Hendrix. My parents were sixteen and nineteen years old at the outbreak of World War II, and living in Liverpool, UK, a city which was the most heavily bombed outside of London.  In […]

FMM 3 13 2026 Summer Holidays

“If we don’t end war, war will end us.” ~ H. G. Wells. I learned the term ‘code switch’ a few years ago, and found it quite appropriate.  It describes the ability of many of us to change the way we communicate, according to our environment or our company.  Since I thought I was the […]

FMM 3 6 2026 Can we Talk?

“If you want peace, you don’t talk to your friends. You talk to your enemies.” ~ Desmond Tutu. I self-published my first book over ten years ago, but I had been writing for years before that.  At first it was handwritten in blank, unlined journals, writing down impressions of my travels, a few crappy poems, […]

FMM 1 31 2025 This is just a Test

“In order to succeed, people need a sense of self-efficacy, to struggle together with resilience to meet the inevitable obstacles and inequities of life.” ~ Albert Bandura. I was one of those annoying students who enjoyed exams.  I looked forward (although still with a touch of anxiety) to show what I knew.  Like an athlete […]

FMM 2 9 2024 Larger than Life

“Our dead are never dead to us, until we have forgotten them.” ~ George Eliot. I don’t know how old I was when I went to my first funeral.  I know that it was not a requirement, even though my father was the minister of the church. But I was probably a teenager and a […]

FMM 11 10 2023 Where have all the flowers gone?

“The earth does not belong to us. We belong to the earth.” ~ Chief Seattle. I have no idea when I met my first frog.  I do remember learning about the amazing life cycle, the eggs looking like a blob with the weird name: frog spawn.  The transformation into little wriggling things with tails and […]

FMM 10 13 2023 Make Love Not War

“Lord, make me an instrument of thy peace. Where there is hatred, let me sow love.” ~ Francis of Assisi. I have never been good in a fight.  Physical fights were not allowed in our household growing up.  When the church is a big part of your upbringing, ‘turn the other cheek’ and ‘a soft […]

FMM 3 4 2022 Artivism

“Life beats down and crushes the soul and art reminds you that you have one.” ~ Stella Adler. The power of the poet is their ability to crystallize and synthesize diverse situations into a few lines that leave a lasting impression.  I don’t remember when it was that I learned about a couple of English […]

FMM 11 11 16 Remembrance

“In the end we will remember, not the words of our enemies, but the silence of our friends.”~ Martin Luther King, Jr. There was a card game we used to play when I was young; it was a simple game of pairing cards.  But the deck was spread out (face down) on a table, and […]

FMM 12 4 15 Life Goes On

“A woman is like a tea-bag: you don’t know how strong she is  until you put her in hot water” ~Eleanor Roosevelt.  One day recently my mother wondered out loud: “How did I get such strong daughters?”   I am not sure what had prompted this comment, but I could only reply: “Look who raised us!”  […]