Tag Archives: family

FMM 3 6 2026 Can we Talk?

“If you want peace, you don’t talk to your friends. You talk to your enemies.” ~ Desmond Tutu. I self-published my first book over ten years ago, but I had been writing for years before that.  At first it was handwritten in blank, unlined journals, writing down impressions of my travels, a few crappy poems, […]

FMM 2 6 2026 Sparking Empathy

“There can be no keener revelation of a society’s soul than the way in which it treats its children.” ~ Nelson Mandela. I was (still am) the youngest child in my family.  This was a source of much anguish for me, for many reasons.  Only the youngest can know what it feels like to be […]

FMM 1 2 2026 Reflections

“There are two ways of spreading light: to be the candle or the mirror that reflects it.” ~ Edith Wharton. One of the most annoying things we ask children is ‘What do you want to be when you grow up.’  I was reminded of that in a conversation with a four-year-old who, without being asked, […]

FMM 12 26 2025 Could you be Love?

“Love doesn’t make the world go ’round. Love is what makes the ride worthwhile.” ~ Franklin P. Jones. December has always been my favorite month of the year.  No surprise really, since it is my birth month.  Considering I only saw a tiny bit of December when I was born (on the eve of New […]

FMM 10 3 2025 Walk a Mile in My Skin

“I think, at a child’s birth, if a mother could ask a fairy godmother to endow it with the most useful gift, that gift should be curiosity.” ~ Eleanor Roosevelt. My father was a planner.  Before he moved his family (wife and five children of whom I was the youngest) and all of their worldly […]

FMM 7 4 2025 Ode to Joy

“Find ecstasy in life; the mere sense of living is joy enough.” ~ Emily Dickinson. After seven days of activities and events here in Jamaica that have produced so many moments of joy, I am not sure how I will report on them in just one post.  But perhaps I can tempt your senses with […]

FMM 6 20 2025 Amplifying Hope

“Hope is being able to see that there is light despite all of the darkness.” ~ Desmond Tutu. My thoughts have been on my childhood a lot recently.  Ever since I was invited to be the guest speaker at my old primary (elementary in the US) school’s graduation, I have been reminiscing about those days […]

FMM 5 9 25 ‘Follow me Part-way’

“We are all just walking each other home” ~ Ram Dass. I have had some interesting conversations while walking with different people during my life.  For a start I grew up walking.  Not like in the US where it seems you drive everywhere, at least here in South Florida, especially in the hot, humid, summertime.  […]

FMM 4 11 2025 It’s a MAD…world!

“Every moment of light and dark is a miracle.” ~ Walt Whitman. Confession time.  There have been a couple of times in my life when my fantasies have helped me to make a decision.  I realized that I needed to end my marriage when I had started to think my life would be better if […]

FMM 3 14 2025 Holding Space

“… everything on earth can be eliminated under the right conditions.” ~ Louise Erdrich. Some years ago I had an experience which proved invaluable in the classroom: I witnessed a man experiencing the sudden onset of a stroke.  We were at a fundraising dance together, he had gone to buy us a drink each, and […]