Category transcendence

FMM 5 2 2025 ‘A it mek!’

“Isn’t it amazing that we are all made in God’s image, and yet there is so much diversity among his people?” ~ Desmond Tutu. One of the great defining features of my life was the fact that my family moved from a city in the UK to the heart of rural Jamaica when I was […]

FMM 4 25 2025 Inner Vision

“When you’re through changing, you’re through.” ~ Bruce Barton. I have been fortunate that in my life, very few of my encounters with the health care system have been from the point of view of the patient.  It is easy to be the one in the uniform, in control of things, able to complete tasks […]

FMM 4 18 2025 Will Your Anchor Hold?

“Let your life lightly dance on the edges of Time like dew on the tip of a leaf.” ~  Rabindranath Tagore. My father has been haunting my dreams recently.  In fact, just this morning I said those exact words in my dreams.  Well not exactly, I said my father has been haunting me.  Because dreams […]

FMM 4 11 2025 It’s a MAD…world!

“Every moment of light and dark is a miracle.” ~ Walt Whitman. Confession time.  There have been a couple of times in my life when my fantasies have helped me to make a decision.  I realized that I needed to end my marriage when I had started to think my life would be better if […]

FMM 4 4 2025 Tan Tuddy!

“May we think of freedom, not as the right to do as we please, but as the opportunity to do what is right.” ~ Peter Marshall. I was a frontline nurse working in Miami when AIDS appeared, with all of the unknowns that went along with it.  In the early years it seemed to be […]

FMM 3 28 2025 I Plead the First

“Why should I be afraid of the pestilence that crawleth by night?” Tony Rebel. Because I am the youngest in my family and the last to leave home, I spent my last four years in high school as an only child.  That wasn’t exactly true, since we always had ‘boarders’, friends from high school who […]

FMM 3 21 2025 Imaginary Engineers

“The most common way people give up their power is by thinking they don’t have any.” ~ Alice Walker. I was a bedside nurse in the 1980s, a time when the way the government reimbursed hospitals for patient stays was upended completely.  Prior to this time, any patient whose insurance was paid for by the […]

FMM 3 14 2025 Holding Space

“… everything on earth can be eliminated under the right conditions.” ~ Louise Erdrich. Some years ago I had an experience which proved invaluable in the classroom: I witnessed a man experiencing the sudden onset of a stroke.  We were at a fundraising dance together, he had gone to buy us a drink each, and […]

FMM 3 7 2025 The Boss of Me

“The secret of freedom lies in educating people, whereas the secret of tyranny is in keeping them ignorant.” ~ Maximilien Robespierre. Evelyn was the first person who befriended me when I was the new girl in school.  I was more than new, I was different, a little girl in rural Jamaica, with an English accent […]

FMM 2 28 2025 Happy place, Sad reason

“In every community, there is work to be done. In every nation, there are wounds to heal. In every heart, there is the power to do it.” ~ Marianne Williamson. I first learned about hurricanes when I was almost eight years old and traveling to Jamaica on the S.S. Ascania with my family and a […]