Monthly Archives: October 2023

FMM 10 27 23 Reconstructing Family

“Little children are still the symbol of the eternal marriage between love and duty.” ~ George Eliot. It seems obscene to say this, but fifty years ago I was a senior in high school (in Upper Sixth Form as we say in the old British system).  I had lived most of my life in Jamaica, […]

FMM 10 20 2023 Take a Breath, Nurse

“I’m like a recovering perfectionist. For me it’s one day at a time.” ~ Brene Brown. I don’t know when I first heard the word ‘codependent’.  It certainly wasn’t a term when we were in nursing school.  When I did read about it, I recognized myself in the description.  Part of it was the need […]

FMM 10 13 2023 Make Love Not War

“Lord, make me an instrument of thy peace. Where there is hatred, let me sow love.” ~ Francis of Assisi. I have never been good in a fight.  Physical fights were not allowed in our household growing up.  When the church is a big part of your upbringing, ‘turn the other cheek’ and ‘a soft […]

FMM 10 6 2023 Where I lay my hat

“The ache for home lives in all of us, the safe place where we can go as we are and not be questioned.” ~ Maya Angelou. Traditions are funny things.  One of the reasons that special seasons have special meaning is because we do the same thing each year.  In England, going to Pantomime around […]